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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote Aleksandr Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 01 Nov 2010 at 5:55pm
It may not be your centre (It's not mine either) but if you trundle along to the Papworth support group he would definitely meet up the partners of other patients.
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote jet Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 01 Nov 2010 at 4:23pm
Hi Janey, my husband is also my carer and yes he feels sometimes on his own I'm sure.  I have had PH for at least 4 years now and all I can do is thank god I have got him.  I am sure he is scared as well, especially when I'm having a bad time.  We do talk to each other a lot but he doesnt really talk to anyone else about it.  We went to a PH session last Xmas and they split the carers and patients up which was great and sure it gave him an opportunity to say how he feels.  I think men find it harder to express their feelings, just my opinion.  Take care xx
Had Lupus for at least 27 years diagnosed with secondary PH in 2006
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One of the things that came out of the conference this weekend was lack of support etc for carers of people with PH.

I was diagnosed November 2009, and this was the first time i met other PHers, because i didnt know how the conference would go or what to expect, i made a decision to take a good supportive friend with me instead of my husband. My parents were also away so he had to stay behind in reality to look after our daughter, but speaking to him on my return about the weekend and the subject above that arose, he said then that he wanted to come so he had the opportunity to talk to other partners/ carers of people with PH and to see how they were coping with everything and the best way to get help or support for himself. hindsight is a wonderful thing but unfortunately it doesnt help knowing that i probably made the wrong choice of support to take with me and that the next conference is probably a whole year away before My husband can probably meet other people in his situation!
 
Hearing alot about this forum over the weekend, i was surprised to see that this section doesnt have any posts or tips for carers/ partners etc
 
IS anyone else in the same situation as my husband and have any tips/ ideas etc? Is there a support group for carers/ partners that anyone knows about?
 
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Janey xx
 
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